How to get my husband on my side

Talk calmly about how you feel without blaming or accusing.

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Understand his point of view.

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Look for things you both agree on.

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Do things you both enjoy.

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Talk about your hopes, dreams, and fears.

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Try to see things from his perspective.

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Help him with his goals and dreams.

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Don't expect things to change overnight.

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